The Life Seems Harder Than We expect

Changing is never hard Because if changing is hard, how could Ben 10 transform from a normal boy into a no-eyes-monster or you-know-the-rest-of-it within just seconds, just by pouncing on his wrist-watch?

What an irrelevant example. Only kids like Hamzah would accept this example. So please be a kid like Hamzah. :p
Anyway, I've just been reading through all the old letters sent by my owls and I found this and felt inclined to add a new letter, as an official reply to one of the comments.
pqralsnk, January 4 2010, 8:49 am
"Brand new year, or so we think. So, realizing how we've been before, there are things we'd change bout ourselves. What will you do now?
Something to ponder..
(hey, liked the song)"
pqralsnk, funny it's 5 months later I replied, maybe it's because I've just found the answer (or maybe I was just too lazy at that time, haha!) about what to do? Changing oneself is never easy, just thinking about it is like, 'Oh do I've to do all the work?'

You're demotivated when you take the process of changing as a chore. But what if you just put an intention on it? What if you just say to yourself, 'I really want to change that and that about myself!' without worrying the 'chore' you have to do?

An intention, that is so strong and sincere, will consequently brings out the best in you. You will subconsciously do what's need to be done without feeling like exhausted. And it's a day-to-day process. Just worry about what you need to do today. So you won't feel so much burdened.

Omg, there are so many things I want to change about myself. I wish I'm more chatty so that...why huh?, I wish I'm braver as to tell that instructor that only girls are allowed to sit at the back, I wish I have more patience with the kids so that I won't sound throaty afterwards, I wish I'd stop day-dreaming and focus on what's real and I wish I won't get hungry by just looking at the pictures of mouth-watering food (OK I'm getting hungrier now), I wish I'm not clumsy so that people would stop saying 'Bibah ni....', I wish all of my wishes come true so that I don't have to wish again =)
The Song

The truth slapped at my face
I begin to realize how I’ve been
You’re not my future
Yet you are here
Unless I look into your eyes
You’ll be keep on being you
Ignore it you must not
Or else you’ll rot!

pqralsnk. thanks for liking that song. I like it, too =) It nearly makes me cry. OK, stop. I guess it's more to a poem but I'd hate if people read it as if they're reading poems, that's why I call it 'song', huh whatever ;p

note 1: The Mara interviewer, she disagreed when I said that in order to change other people, we have to change ourselves first. So feel free to disagree. But I won't disagree back. I don't wanna change your opinion. I just wanna stick with mine. :)

note 2: Back to the title, it's just a physco phrase. Because if we say "hard", we would become lazy and think it's impossible. If we say 'It's just not so easy", we'd like say this back to ourselves, "So what? It isn't easy but it's possible. I'll prove it to you. Give me the watch now!"

note 3: to this one special girl,which i call her ateh, I've recently become close to, I would like to dedicate this lines of lyric to you - 'I don't wanna to change you, I just wanna you to be happy' =)

I’ve heard about the law of attraction and how we attract into our lives the things we focus on. Is there some secret of attraction that I don’t know about?

Answer: The Law of Attraction, while very popular right now, has been known for centuries, and has always been in effect. While there’s some dispute over how and why it works, it’s simple, and there’s anecdotal and even some scientific evidence that it does work. (Read this article for more information on the Law of Attraction.)

To achieve more attetion,u focus on the people who think bad about you.(In fact, rather than focusing on it happening in the future, you should focus on seeing changes now; otherwise, your beliefs may cause the changes to always be ‘in the future’.) Visualize the attention tht peolpe gave to u , and you will see opportunities opening up for you. (Read this article on using the Law of Attraction for positive change for more on this process.)

Attention : If you don't have everything you want in life, please read this important message...

"You're About To Discover The One Thing That Can Give You (Or Rob You) Of Everything You Want In Your Life!"

You've probably heard outrageous claims like this before, but
this time, you have "The Law" on your side...

Dear Friend,

By now, you've probably heard about the phenomenon called The Secret. Using this 'secret' you can create anything you want in your life:

• More money
• A Bigger House
• More Business
• A New Mate

Anything you want!

Well, if you didn't know, the 'secret' behind The Secret is a universal principle called the Law Of Attraction. You may have heard it referred to as "like attracts like", or "karma", or several other things, but the concepts boils down to this: what you think about the most becomes your reality.

That's right.

If you're broke right now, it's because of what you've been thinking about for the last few years...

If you aren't living in the house you want it's because of your thinking...

If you aren't in the relationship you want, it's because of your thinking...

And here's the rub...it's the law!

Yep, just like the law of gravity - it works all the time whether you want it to or not!

Think about it...whether or not you believe in the law of gravity or not, whether you like it or not...it works all the time, every time - because it's the law. If you drop a brick, it will hit the ground. A thousand years ago it hit the ground...a thousand years from now it will hit the ground - it doesn't change. Even when you were a baby, before you knew anything about gravity it worked.

The Law of Attraction works the same way. It's working all the time, whether you believe it or not.

The question is: Are you making The Law work for you or against you?

Here's a simple way to tell if the law of attraction is working for you or not: If you don't have everything you want in your life, it's not working for you like it could.

Learning to love yourself,is the greatest love of all

My point here is,all of us,especially myself hehe should learn to love ourselves and not trying to be someone we are not.Of course,you should change to be a better person but there's a distinct line between changing for the good and just faking it.Sometimes,we wish we could have their houses,their cars,their beuty, and all kind of stuff,but the secret to life is beyond our lifes and just grateful for wht you have now.If u feeling grumpy because u've missed lunch,remember tht there are those in desprived countries who are dying because of famine.

I used to be someone who likes to blame others for well,everything.When things didn't go the way I wanted them to be,I would find someone or something to blame for.I didn't like to take the responsibility and it felt nice that way. How wrong I was back then. Not until I read 'The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teenagers' by Stephen R. Covey, I realised that I wouldn't achieve anything if I keep doing that. The title of the book is kinda corny, but you can't stop reading it once you get hold of it. Highly recommended guys. It changes the way I think and the way I look at things.
For example, one blames the government for the high fuel price and all things related to it, but even if you vent out your anger and frustration to your friends, your neighbours, and even your cats, would things turn out differently? NO. To clarify things up, I'm not being pro-government or anything, I'm just making a point here. Hehehehe.
Hmm, another example, let's say you always fail your Add Maths tests and exams and your parents aren't too happy about that. Because of that, you blame your teachers and you threaten to kill the founder of Add Maths, hahahaha. Would that make any difference? Would you pass your next test? NO. So, why waste your energy doing that?
What I'm trying to say is, whenever things don't go the way you want them to be, you must always look at yourself first and figure out what the problem is. Life is indeed hard; but just deal with it.
Hahahahaha. Thanks for reading this long post

p/s:foremost..I'm so sorry kak hafeeza bcoz I copy this post from kak Hafeeza's blog..I found it very interesting so..hehehe..plz dont mad at me..when i read this post.i thing we have something common between u and me..something tht is same..if i figure it out..soon or later..u be the first person i'll tell..ok.wassalam..

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